A letter for the girls/women

April 17 2016

I've decided to do today's post a little differently; and I've decided to address this post to all the girls/women out there.

Always be on watch;
As there are those that KNOW your flaws.
They know exactly how to make you fall for them,
and know that you will ignore what they do to you 
because you 'love' them.

They know to come after you,
and be sure; they WILL take advantage of you,
simply because they don't have the greatest self-esteem themselves.
They need to prey on innocent/naive girls/women like you,
that don't know any better.

Don't be so taken in by their charm.
Watch what they say to you;
what they DON'T say to you,
how they act around you,
how they approach you.

Be observant and objective.
DON'T give your heart to them until you
KNOW their character flaws,
because at the end of the day,
if they've got bad character,
YOU'RE the one that's going to sit with it.

Develop boundaries,
as you're going to need them to
beat these guys off that want to UNDERHANDEDLY and
SLYLY take advantage and manipulate you.
KNOW who you are and the things you 
DON'T WANT in a guy,
Be sure to look for this first;
because this will be a life saver.
You'll be able to spot a guy that you
DON'T want from a mile away...

Here's hoping to a better future,
Morven.